NEW DELHI : Farting is a natural process and once you feel like farting it generally cannot be controlled and should not be controlled. But early in the childhood people are taught that they should not fart in front of people let alone in front of their partner. Most people try to put their best foot in front of their partner. This means avoiding letting one go in front of them.
However, on the contrary, the fact that has risen time and again is that it can actually be beneficial for your relationship. Lasting, relationships are formed on sincerity and trust and you can only accomplish that by being as natural as you can. This has also been confirmed by Leah Decesare in her book “Naked Parenting”. In this author described that her accidental farting in front of her husband over 20 years ago made him felt closer to her. It gave him confidence that he can be natural in front of her and thus boosted the relationship.
The foundation of solid marriage lies over honesty, acceptance, and truth, i.e. a spot where you can be free and completely yourself to the tiniest details.Women are normally shy to fart even in a public restroom because somebody might hear. They hold it and wait until alone to ultimately let it out. However, this should be different with your partner.
One should be free and natural in front of them. Leah reveals that farting in front of your partner creates empathy, making people come closer and even more charming. In marriage, people vow to stick together in sickness and health and to share everything. Then why not share farts. Farting in front of your partner can make you laugh together, and a couple who laughs when alone is eternally a happy couple. Hiding an integral part of yourself just to appear prim and proper makes no sense. Be honest with each other to build up a beautiful, healthy and happy relationship that makes both of you feel free and safe.